What inspired you to do a shoot? 

There were so many major life milestones and tragedies happening all at once. Divorce, moving half way across the country, starting a new job, and learning to adjust to Oklahoma life. I was pretty miserable. One morning I woke up and  chose to regain my confidence and peace of mind. I wanted to capture this moment in time to serve a reminder that hard times don't last. I hope my 2 girls can look at these pictures one day and be like "damn that's my strong ass mom! Get it girl." :) 

Why did you choose Adoralee? 

The positivity and women empowerment radiates from your social media and I wanted nothing more than to have a small piece of it. 

Were you nervous and why?

Believe it or not, I was not nervous. Hardest part was picking an outfit that was sexy but also comfortable. Totally in my "fuck it" era of life so I guess it's only fitting. 

What was the best part about your experience? 

The coaching through poses, relaxing and calm environment, and the photos themself! I felt comfortable from the moment I was greeted at the door. 

What would you say to someone considering a boudoir shoot?

Just go for it. You will be surprised by the art that comes out of just doing it- both in the photos captured and also in the art of doing something that may or may not be comfortable. Growth will come from it and you will look back and be like "damn I really just did that." I can promise it will be a positive experience and Adoralee will make you feel like a confident supermodel.

How did it impact how you view yourself? 

It impacted me in the way in which I see my body. Having 2 kids and getting lost in years of being a mom has been a challenge, but seeing myself in photos reminded me of how strong and good my body has been to me. Health isn't something to take for granted and I am grateful to have photos and representation. Again, something I can use to show my girls when they are grown- to love themselves and the body they have.  

Remember, your journey is worth celebrating, and a boudoir session can be a beautiful way to cherish the changing seasons of both the world and yourself.- ADORALEE

  You guys made turning 40 a little easier and a lot of fun!  I was mostly expecting this to be an awkward and somewhat embarrassing session.   I was also prepared to be completely disappointed in the pictures and truly believed the whole thing was going to make me feel worse about myself.  

     However, the whole experience was great and I had a blast!   And to my surprise, I found myself loving a lot of the pictures…and I felt PRETTY!   

As women, we often find ourselves juggling multiple roles and responsibilities, from being caring daughters, supportive partners, nurturing mothers, ambitious professionals, and compassionate friends. Amidst this whirlwind, we often overlook one of the most crucial aspects of our lives – getting to know ourselves deeply.

Self-discovery is a transformative journey that empowers us as individuals and nurtures our emotional, mental, and spiritual well-being. In this blog, we delve into the significance of self-discovery for women and why taking the time to understand ourselves is essential for personal growth and empowerment.

Embracing Your True Self:

Self-discovery is about peeling back the layers and embracing our authentic selves. By understanding our beliefs, values, and desires, we become more confident in expressing our needs and standing up for what truly matters to us. This authenticity radiates strength and inspires others to do the same, creating a positive impact on our relationships and communities.

Building Self-Confidence:

Knowing oneself deeply fosters self-confidence. Recognizing our strengths and acknowledging our areas for improvement allows us to set realistic goals and work towards achieving them. The more we believe in ourselves, the more likely we are to take on new challenges and conquer them with resilience.

Setting Healthy Boundaries:

In our desire to please others, we may often compromise our own boundaries. Self-discovery helps us understand our limits and assertively communicate them to those around us. By setting healthy boundaries, we create a harmonious balance in our relationships and reduce feelings of resentment and stress.

Nurturing Personal Growth:

The path of self-discovery is an ongoing journey of growth and self-improvement. As we gain insight into our behaviors and thought patterns, we can identify areas that require attention and development. This continuous pursuit of personal growth enables us to evolve into the best versions of ourselves.

Empowerment and Independence:

When we truly know ourselves, we gain a sense of empowerment and independence. We become the architects of our own lives, making decisions aligned with our values and dreams. This self-reliance allows us to navigate life's challenges with grace and determination.

Celebrating Womanhood:

Understanding ourselves as women is an opportunity to celebrate our unique qualities and embrace our femininity. By embracing our strengths and experiences, we can build a strong foundation for self-love and acceptance, fostering a positive body image and mental well-being.

Enhancing Emotional Intelligence:

Self-discovery involves exploring our emotions and understanding their roots. This process enhances our emotional intelligence, enabling us to recognize and manage our feelings better. Moreover, this heightened emotional awareness allows us to empathize with others on a deeper level, strengthening our connections.

The journey of self-discovery is a powerful and transformative experience for women. By investing time and effort into understanding ourselves, we unlock the door to personal growth, empowerment, and well-being. Embracing our authentic selves, building self-confidence, and setting healthy boundaries empower us to lead fulfilling lives and become inspiring role models for others. As women, let us embark on this empowering journey of self-discovery, supporting one another along the way, and embracing our true essence with pride and grace. Remember, getting to know yourself is not a destination but an ever-evolving process of becoming the woman you were always meant to be.