The Most Beautiful Valentine’s Day Gift is the Gift of Self Love!
French American novelist and writer of erotica, Anais Nin once said
“She lacks confidence, she craves admiration insatiably. She lives on the reflections of
herself in the eyes of others. She does not dare to be herself.”
If I could be so bold I would expand upon Nin’s above quote by saying
“She cannot see herself as beautifully as the rest of the world does.”
That is exactly where I believe my purpose in life is now. I am here to show you, your breath taking humanity, delicacy, femininity, sensuality, longing, desire, pleasure, strength, vulnerability and absolute beauty! I want you to experience yourself as those who interact with you do, those who respect and admire you, those who are intimate with you and mostly those who love you. I need to be the mirror that so many of us are missing, a mirror that shows you that true and beautiful reflection of our inner and external beauty.
Anais Ninn was a beautiful and wondrous creature and I could easily write this entire post about my profound love of her work and admiration for her as a human. However, today I want to talk about how we can all learn from her trail blazing examples of freedom in femininity, sensuality, sexuality and the all-important practice of self-love.
TODAYS POST IS ABOUT YOU, IT’S ABOUT ME, IT’S ABOUT ALL OF US…. LEANING INTO OUR FEAR AND BEGINNING A JOURNEY, OR RATHER, CONTINUING A JOURNEY OF EXPLORATION, ACCEPTANCE AND SELF LOVE.
“There came a time when the risk to remain tight in the bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.”
– Anaïs Nin
ADORALEE BOUDOIR is offering:
“The Gift of Self-Love”
this Valentine’s Day and I hope every single person who reads this post takes advantage of it and walks through our doors!
I personally know the hardships of not accepting and loving oneself and I know the beauty of self-love and how it blossoms and spreads like wild flowers throughout every aspect of your life when it is a mindful practice.
This year gift yourself the permission to be you, unapologetically gorgeous, feminine, sensual and perfect just as you are! It’s time to explore vulnerability, beauty and self-love
ADORALEE Boudoir Session
The experience alone will be mind-blowing. Your final images are something you will treasure yourself but can also share as a gift with your lover if you choose.
Honestly, we have all been conditioned in one way or another not to honor ourselves, not to be free and true, Not to believe we are enough and it is
Social and cultural values as well as media from every direction have taught us that there is something lacking within us, an inner emptiness that needs to be filled externally. There is actually a place within us that needs to be filled but it does not come from an external source. It is the realization that we are enough, we are worthy of love and then WE fill that place with self-love. Only then can we truly love in all the beautiful ways that love is meant to be experienced!
This conditioning sets us up to falter and fall. When we are looking outside of ourselves for validation and love we are looking in all the wrong places, true love starts and comes from within.
“An understanding of our true beauty, value and worthiness is where it all must begin.”
Self-love is the most important quality you can cultivate, it will determine how you speak and act, how you treat yourself and others, what decisions you will make, in short – it affects EVERYTHING.
Self-love begins with awareness, a clear understanding of your value, your humanity, your beauty and authenticity.
Many of us have been conditioned to be afraid of our truths, we suppress who we are or fear who we are not. When you let others determine your truth, your value and dictate who you are supposed to be versus just being unapologetically you.
Self-love begins with acceptance and acknowledgement. Embracing your beauty and strengths and knowing we are all perfectly imperfect in one way or another. We simply cannot be everything to everybody!
What you can be is everything to yourself!
No more comparing yourself with others. See the uniqueness in yourself, let go of the “should be” and the “should’ve been” and say hello to us Together we can explore all of your beauty and create an experience that will leave a lasting impression and a kick start on your self love journey that spreads like wild fire baby!